The Difference between a soul mate and a life partner

In response to Questions emailed to me about discovering your soulmate and getting to really know whether he is just a life partner or a soulmate you been looking forward i'll be sharing a few differences between a soulmate and a life partner from my prospective.

There are many misconceptions  about the term "soulmate and that of  a "life partner"
a soulmate is someone who comes in your life  to teach you , enrich you, push you  and transcend you into a higher state of being and consciousness, while a life partner is a companion whom you trust and depend on during your life better known as Boaz!


HERE ARE 5 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A SOULMATE AND A LIFE PARTNER

1.A soulmate fulfills a lesson in your life
 Soulmates can enter your life masked as friends, family members, and lovers. they fill a passion and desire that needs to be learned, once the assignment and guidance is completed a soulmate usually exists in the picture, often times leaving an inconceivable amount of heart ache.

A life partner has similar interest in your life, this person is always known as the cheerleader, the pillar of strength and support that encourages you to take risks. unlike the soulmate a life partner sticks around regardless of what obstacles and challenges are ahead. life partners  are spiritually and emotionally connected without egotistical notions.

2.There is  huge difference in soul connections:
Soulmates have a deep connection through heart and consciousness. they hit ego and bring about turmoil, the relationships are intense and full of transitions, these beautiful  experiences usually end in broken hearts, soulmates bring them  karmic lessons that need to be completed in this incarnation.

A life partner arrive at a moment when there is self love and acceptance, you are no longer needing to fulfill an emptiness  that cannot be explained. these partners join you with similar stories and they are for the long haul.

"A soulmate's purpose is to shake you up, tear  apart your ego a little bit , show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life" -Elizabeth Gilbert 

3. There is attraction that goes beyond this timeline:
when you meet your soulmate-you feel as if you have known them forever, you understand each other and have similar ways of thinking, your childhoods have similar stories, this is where the intensity in soulmates starts. there is a" knowing" that magnetically attracts you to each other. these relationships can be chaotic and destructive since there are levels of mirroring one another, the flows and habits whereas, life partners come from different paths and backgrounds, the differences enhance the emotional connection, you want to know more and learn from each other , you feel at ease in their presence, and this turns into friendship that is profound and everlasting, love grows with each passing day

"When its time for souls to meet , there's nothing on earth that can prevent them from meeting , no matter where each may be located , what God puts together can never be separated"- Jade Daniella 

4.A soulmate knows you intuitively:
There is a higher connection  between thinking and feeling. you know each other's thoughts and desires, soulmates don't need words to convey their ideas and emotions, they have been where you are, they know how it is to feel a certain way.

life partners are attached to one another physically  and crave to learn the other's values . the relationship is based on logical and intellectual stimulation rather than an emotional one driven by soulmates of highs and lows.

"when you find someone who can make you laugh , smile ,grow, love, happy, valued, respected,makes you mad but happy keep that ,that's euphoria !

5. When you meet your soulmate, you have just have had a huge life experience:
Soulmates  arrive at a specific time when something needs to find closure , amazing lessons come through these relationships, the love that is shared is ecstatic and sometimes full of hard obstacles , these two people are trying to find footing in a relationship that brings out the best and worst in each other
the relationship with a life partner is easy, it begins without work, it continues to connect through  the current day to day events. there is no past or future stories that manipulate the union, there is just "right now" these relationships have healthy marriages because both sides are ready to create a oneness while still remaining their own individuality and authenticity
it is very possible that your soulmate can also become your life partner and it is also possible that the relationship with a life partner can become a profound soul connection and a soul mate is that one is a choice  and the other is not , there is no better  or worst in these two types of relationships, your soul mate and your connections create these these special bonds, each person that enters your life  is a teacher and a student.

"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly"



The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is lead her closer to God than himself, a true relationship is someone who accepts your past, supports your present , loves you and encourages your future ! Wait on God let him write your love story

"Your soulmate makes you feel entirely intact, like no piece  is missing from the puzzle , a life partner on the other hand  can be supportive  and a long time but is limited in his or her capacity to enrich your spirit Dr Carmen Harra "

Declarations to live by Daily

Declarations to live by Daily_Jade Daniella 

Day 1 – I DECLARE God’s incredible blessings over my life. I will see an explosion of God’s goodness, a sudden widespread increase. I will experience the surpassing greatness of God’s favor. It will elevate me to a level higher than I ever dreamed of. Explosive blessings are coming my way. This is my declaration.

Day 2 – I DECLARE I will experience God’s faithfulness. I will not worry. I will not doubt. I will keep my trust in Him, knowing that He will not fail me. I will give birth to every promise God put in my heart and I will become everything God created me to be. This is my declaration.

Day 3 – I DECLARE I have the grace I need for today. I am full of power, strength, and determination. Nothing I face will be too much for me. I will overcome every obstacle, outlast every challenge, and come through every difficulty better off than I was before. This is my declaration.

Day 4 – I DECLARE it is not too late to accomplish everything God has placed in my heart. I have not missed my window of opportunity.  God has moments of favor in my future. He is preparing me right now because He is about to release a special grace to help me accomplish that dream. This is my time. This is my moment. I receive it today!  This is my declaration.

Day 5 – I DECLARE I am grateful for who God is in my life and for what He’s done. I will not take for granted the people, the opportunities, and the favor He has blessed me with. I will look at what is right and not what is wrong. I will thank Him for what I have and not complain about what I don’t have. I will see each day as a gift from God. My heart will overflow with praise and gratitude for all of His goodness.  This is my declaration.

Day 6 – I DECLARE a legacy of faith over my life. I declare that I will store up blessings for future generations. My life is marked by excellence and integrity. Because I’m making right choices and taking steps of faith, others will want to follow me. God’s abundance is surrounding my life today.  This is my declaration.

Day 7 – I DECLARE that God has a great plan for my life. He is directing my steps. And even though I may not always understand how, I know my situation is not a surprise to God. He will work out every detail to my advantage. In His perfect timing, everything will turn out right.  This is my declaration.

Day 8 – I DECLARE God’s dream for my life is coming to pass. It will not be stopped by people, disappointments, or adversities. God has solutions to every problem I will ever face already lined up. The right people and the right breaks are in my future. I will fulfill my destiny.  This is my declaration.

Day 9 – I DECLARE unexpected blessings are coming my way. I will move forward from barely making it to having more than enough. God will open up supernatural doors for me. He will speak to the right people about me. I will see Ephesians 3:20 exceedingly, abundantly, above-and-beyond favor and increase in my life. This is my declaration.

Day 10 – I DECLARE that God will accelerate His plan for my life as I put my trust in Him. I will accomplish my dreams faster than I thought possible. It will not take years to overcome obstacles, to get out of debt, or to meet the right person. God is doing things faster than before. He will give me victory sooner than I think. He has blessings that will thrust me years ahead. This is my declaration.

Day 11 – I DECLARE Ephesians 3:20 over my life. God will do exceedingly, abundantly above all that I ask or think. Because I honor Him, His blessings will chase me down and overtake me. I will be in the right place at the right time. People will go out of their way to be good to me. I am surrounded by God’s favor.  This is my declaration.

Day 12 – I DECLARE I am special and extraordinary. I am not average! I have been custom-made. I am one of a kind. Of all the things God created, what He is most proud of is me. I am his masterpiece, His most prized possession. I will keep my head held high, knowing I am a child of the most high God, made in His very image. This is my declaration.

Day 13 – I DECLARE that God is bringing about new seasons of growth.  I will not get stagnant and hold on to the old.  I will be open to change knowing that God has something better in front of me.  New doors of opportunity, new relationships, and new levels of favor are in my future.  This is my declaration.

Day 14 – I DECLARE that I will use my words to bless people.  I will speak favor and victory over my family, friends, and loved ones.  I will help call out their seeds of greatness by telling them “I’m proud of you. I love you. You are amazing. You are talented. You are beautiful. You will do great things in life.”  This is my declaration

Day 15 – I DECLARE that I have a sound mind filled with good thoughts, not thoughts of defeat. By faith, I am well able. I am anointed. I am equipped. I am empowered. My thoughts are guided by God’s Word, every day. No obstacle can defeat me because my mind is programmed for victory. This is my declaration.

Day 16 – I DECLARE that I will live as a healer. I am sensitive to the needs of those around me. I will lift the fallen, restore the broken, and encourage the discouraged, I am full of compassion and kindness. I won’t just look for a miracle. I will become someone’s miracle by showing God’s love and mercy everywhere I go. This is my declaration.

Day 17 – I DECLARE I will put actions behind my faith. I will not be passive or indifferent. I will demonstrate my faith by taking bold steps to move toward what God has put in my heart. My faith will not be hidden; it will be seen. I know when God sees my faith, He will show up and do amazing things. This is my declaration.

Day 18 – I DECLARE breakthroughs are coming in my life, sudden bursts of God’s goodness. Not a trickle. Not a stream.  But a flood of God’s power.  A flood of healing.  A flood of wisdom.  A flood of favor.  I am a breakthrough person and I choose to live breakthrough minded. I am expecting God to overwhelm me with His goodness and amaze me with His favor. This is my declaration.

Day 19 – I DECLARE there is an anointing of ease on my life. God is going before me making crooked places straight. His yoke is easy and His burden is light. I will not continually struggle. What used to be difficult will not be difficult anymore. God’s favor and blessing on my life is lightening the load and taking the pressure off. This is my declaration.

Day 20 – I DECLARE that I am calm and peaceful. I will not let people or circumstances upset me. I will rise above every difficulty, knowing that God has given me the power to remain calm. I choose to live my life happy, bloom where I am planted, and let God fight my battles. This is my declaration.

Day 21 – I DECLARE God’s supernatural favor over my life. What I could not make happen on my own, God will make happen for me. Supernatural opportunities, healing, restoration, and breakthroughs are coming my way. I am getting stronger, healthier, and wiser. I will discover talent that I didn’t know I had and I will accomplish my God-given dream. This is my declaration.

Day 22 – I DECLARE I will live victoriously. I was created in the image of God. I have the DNA of a winner. I am wearing a crown of favor. Royal blood flows through my veins. I am the head, never the tail, above never beneath. I will live with purpose, passion, and praise, knowing that I was destined to live in victory. This is my declaration.

Day 23 – I DECLARE I am a people builder. I will look for opportunities to encourgae others to bring out the best in them and to help them accomplish their dreams. I will speak words of faith and victory, affirming them, approving them, letting them know they are valued. I will call out their seeds of greatness, helping them to rise higher and become all that God created them to be. This is my declaration.

Day 24 – I DECLARE I will speak only positive words of faith and victory over myself, my family, and my future. I will not use my words to describe my situation. I will use my words to change my situation. I will call in favor, good breaks, healing, and restoration. I will not talk to God about how big my problems are. I will talk to my problems about how big my God is.This is my declaration.

Day 25 – I DECLARE I will not just survive, I will thrive. I will prosper despite every difficulty that may come my way. I know every setback is a setup for a comeback. I will not get stagnant, give up on my dreams, or settle where I am. I know one touch of God’s favor can change everything. I’m ready for a year of blessings and a year of thriving. This is my declaration.

Day 26 – I DECLARE I will choose faith over fear. I will meditate on what is positive and what is good about my situation. I will use my energy, not to worry, but to believe. Fear has no part in my life. I will not dwell on negative, discouraging thoughts. My mind is set on what God says about me. I know his plan for me is for success, victory, and abundance. This is my declaration.

Day 27 – I DECLARE I am equipped for every good work God has planned for me. I am anointed and empowered by the Creator of the universe. Every bondage, every limitation, is being broken off of me. This is my time to shine. I will rise higher, overcome every obstacle, and experience victory like never before! This is my declaration.

Day 28 – I DECLARE that I will ask God for big things in my life. I will pray bold prayers and expect big and believe big. I will ask God to bring to pass those hidden dreams that are deep in my heart. If certain promises don’t look like they will happen, I will not be intimidated and give up. I will pray with boldness, expecting God to show Himself strong, knowing that nothing is too difficult for Him. This is my declaration.

Day 29 – I DECLARE God is working all things together for my good. He has a master plan for my life. There may be things i don’t understand right now but I’m not worried. I know all the pieces aren’t here yet. One day it will all come together and everything will make sense. I will see God’s amazing plan taking me places i never dreamed of. This is my declaration.

Day 30 – I DECLARE God is going before me making crooked places straight. He has already lined up the tight people, the right opportunities and solutions to problems I haven’t had. No person, no sickness, no disappointment, can stop His plan. What he promised will come to pass. This is my declaration.

Day 31 – I DECLARE everything that doesn’t line up with God’s vision for my life is subject to change. Sickness, trouble, lack, mediocrity, are not permanent. They are only temporary. I will not be moved by what I see but by what I know. I am a victor and never a victim. I will become all God has created me to be. This is my declaration.

Breathe God Above All

Breathe God Above All 
Quit living as if the purpose of life is to arrive safely at death.
Set God-sized goals. Pursue God-ordained passions.
Go after a dream that is destined to fail without divine intervention.
Keep asking questions. Keep making mistakes.
Keep seeking God.
Stop pointing out problems and become part of the solution.
Stop repeating the past and start creating the future.
Stop playing it safe and start taking risks.
Expand your horizons. Accumulate experiences.
Enjoy the journey.
Find every excuse you can to celebrate everything you can.
Live like today is the first day and last day of your life.
Don’t let what’s wrong with you keep you from worshiping what’s right with God.
Burn sinful bridges. Blaze new trails.
Don’t let fear dictate your decisions.
Take a flying leap of faith.
Quit holding out. Quit holding back.
Push all of your chips to the middle of the table.
It’s time to ante up all of your faith.
It’s time to go all in.
It’s time to go all out.

Godly Realtionships Part 1

"The biggest problem with us mere beings when it comes to relationships is we desire "Godly relationships" more than we desire God" the hunger for some of you may have for relationships is a void that can only be filled by God, When you have a broken relationship with God you seek water from other source that can never satisfy, God wants you to drink of him so stop seeking people remember that Adam didn't seek eve neither did eve seek Adam God brought eve to Adam 

The enemy works overtime  to keep us in shame, because he knows that if he can keep us in shame surely he'll be able to minimize our intimacy with God 
There was a point in my life where I thought satisfaction was found in a relationship, my joy was found in my partner he was my provider and my source to everything I ever wanted but never really did I have that inner peace within me, for example If I ask him to get me something and he says no I would really get pissed at him and end up doing crazy things and having this crazy thoughts like does he really love me or his just a cliche ! The reason why this was happening is because I gave Satan authority to take control of my relationship and surely he messed it all up because he comes to steal, kill and destroy, you can run from one relationship to another relationship but only God can fill that void you feel, only he can give you the desires of your heart, your goal in any relationship should be to glorify God as long as you are single and if along the way God gives you a spouse than glorify him in marriage.
A relationship that last is the one Christ in the center, two people putting God first seeking him in every way possible, in order to be as good, a spouse as one can be its all about trusting in Gods plan and not depending on your own strength!

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 
Love is patient, Love is kind it does not envy it does not boast, it is not proud it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, love does not delight in evil  but rejoices with the truth;it always protects, always trusts;always hopes; always preservers love never fails.

If you want  to be free to serve Jesus there's no question- stay single, marriage takes a lot of time but if you want to be like Jesus, I cant imagine a better thing to do than to get married, being married forces you to face some character issues you'd never have to face otherwise; pursue godliness and let God awaken your Adam at the right time and in his own timing, seek God first and allow him to fill that gap before you consider getting into a relationship one day you'll wake up and you'll be so glad you didn't settle for just anything and you chose to wait on God's plan 
Don't get into another relationship in attempt to get over your last break sit down somewhere and let Christ make you whole you're complete in Christ not another relationship! a guy who loves you Jesus will respect you, pursue you, pray for you ,pray with you and treasure you 
he won't pressure you or even control you, 

A word for the proverbs 31 ladies waiting on God: 
Don't follow the crowd be the kind of woman who is supernaturally attractive because you spend quality time with the Lord, strive to be like Jesus and genuinely love God I guarantee you that you will exude God's character and all of the qualities that will attract the man that your heart truly desires.
nothing is more impressive than a woman who is secured in the unique way God made her :-) 
be active,vigilant, and careful about how much of your heart you give to a man 
be able to walk away from a dating relationship with your whole heart intact so that your future husband is not robbed of part of it down the road, prayerfully consider what, when, how much to give away but ultimately your main priority is as a single woman is to first give your heart fully, wholly, unabashedly, and devoted to Christ alone. Until you have tasted God's eternal, steadfast, redeeming love, hold off on looking for a man because even if a man is not currently pursuing you, Jesus is pursuing you ! don't compare your love story to those in movies and novels because it destroys the relationship those stories were written by mere humans like me and you while yours is written by God the best Author! 

Basics in a Godly relationship

Rely on God's word
Encouring and building each other up
Long lasting
Always be patient,for God is writting your love story
Telling them they are beautiful as they are
I trust in both God and you
One that is Christ centred 
Never led each other astray, from what is important
Seeking God first 
Humble yourself before anyone else
I am committed to loving you like Jesus loves you 
Pray for each other
Share the word with each other 

thank you so much guys for taking time to read this hope you all get a revelation from this, stay connected to godly relationships part 2 where i'll be explaining more about Love and Agape 
 here's a prayer to guide you every day as you build a closer relationship with God repeat it more and more as it'll help you focus on God and overcome loneliness at times I love you so much Guys enjoy! 
God loves you deeply !

Heavenly Father 
It's time for me to forget the past, forget the mistakes, and focus on what you're doing in my life today, I know that you're doing a new thing, you are placing the right people in my life and removing the wrong ones 
you are closing old doors and preparing me for new opportunities, the pruning process can be uncomfortable and painful but I know its for my good 
I choose to trust you 
in Jesus name 
Amen 

GODGIRL, 
Jade Daniella 



  

The All Manifesto

The All in Manifesto 
Quit living as if the purpose of life is to arrive safely at death.
Set God-sized goals. Pursue God-ordained passions.
Go after a dream that is destined to fail without divine intervention.
Keep asking questions. Keep making mistakes.
Keep seeking God.
Stop pointing out problems and become part of the solution.
Stop repeating the past and start creating the future.
Stop playing it safe and start taking risks.
Expand your horizons. Accumulate experiences.
Enjoy the journey.
Find every excuse you can to celebrate everything you can.
Live like today is the first day and last day of your life.
Don’t let what’s wrong with you keep you from worshiping what’s right with God.
Burn sinful bridges. Blaze new trails.
Don’t let fear dictate your decisions.
Take a flying leap of faith.
Quit holding out. Quit holding back.
Push all of your chips to the middle of the table.
It’s time to ante up all of your faith.
It’s time to go all in.
It’s time to go all out.