In response to Questions emailed to me about discovering your soulmate and getting to really know whether he is just a life partner or a soulmate you been looking forward i'll be sharing a few differences between a soulmate and a life partner from my prospective.
There are many misconceptions about the term "soulmate and that of a "life partner"
a soulmate is someone who comes in your life to teach you , enrich you, push you and transcend you into a higher state of being and consciousness, while a life partner is a companion whom you trust and depend on during your life better known as Boaz!
HERE ARE 5 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A SOULMATE AND A LIFE PARTNER
1.A soulmate fulfills a lesson in your life
Soulmates can enter your life masked as friends, family members, and lovers. they fill a passion and desire that needs to be learned, once the assignment and guidance is completed a soulmate usually exists in the picture, often times leaving an inconceivable amount of heart ache.
A life partner has similar interest in your life, this person is always known as the cheerleader, the pillar of strength and support that encourages you to take risks. unlike the soulmate a life partner sticks around regardless of what obstacles and challenges are ahead. life partners are spiritually and emotionally connected without egotistical notions.
2.There is huge difference in soul connections:
Soulmates have a deep connection through heart and consciousness. they hit ego and bring about turmoil, the relationships are intense and full of transitions, these beautiful experiences usually end in broken hearts, soulmates bring them karmic lessons that need to be completed in this incarnation.
A life partner arrive at a moment when there is self love and acceptance, you are no longer needing to fulfill an emptiness that cannot be explained. these partners join you with similar stories and they are for the long haul.
"A soulmate's purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit , show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life" -Elizabeth Gilbert
3. There is attraction that goes beyond this timeline:
when you meet your soulmate-you feel as if you have known them forever, you understand each other and have similar ways of thinking, your childhoods have similar stories, this is where the intensity in soulmates starts. there is a" knowing" that magnetically attracts you to each other. these relationships can be chaotic and destructive since there are levels of mirroring one another, the flows and habits whereas, life partners come from different paths and backgrounds, the differences enhance the emotional connection, you want to know more and learn from each other , you feel at ease in their presence, and this turns into friendship that is profound and everlasting, love grows with each passing day
"When its time for souls to meet , there's nothing on earth that can prevent them from meeting , no matter where each may be located , what God puts together can never be separated"- Jade Daniella
4.A soulmate knows you intuitively:
There is a higher connection between thinking and feeling. you know each other's thoughts and desires, soulmates don't need words to convey their ideas and emotions, they have been where you are, they know how it is to feel a certain way.
life partners are attached to one another physically and crave to learn the other's values . the relationship is based on logical and intellectual stimulation rather than an emotional one driven by soulmates of highs and lows.
"when you find someone who can make you laugh , smile ,grow, love, happy, valued, respected,makes you mad but happy keep that ,that's euphoria !
5. When you meet your soulmate, you have just have had a huge life experience:
Soulmates arrive at a specific time when something needs to find closure , amazing lessons come through these relationships, the love that is shared is ecstatic and sometimes full of hard obstacles , these two people are trying to find footing in a relationship that brings out the best and worst in each other
the relationship with a life partner is easy, it begins without work, it continues to connect through the current day to day events. there is no past or future stories that manipulate the union, there is just "right now" these relationships have healthy marriages because both sides are ready to create a oneness while still remaining their own individuality and authenticity
it is very possible that your soulmate can also become your life partner and it is also possible that the relationship with a life partner can become a profound soul connection and a soul mate is that one is a choice and the other is not , there is no better or worst in these two types of relationships, your soul mate and your connections create these these special bonds, each person that enters your life is a teacher and a student.
"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly"
The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is lead her closer to God than himself, a true relationship is someone who accepts your past, supports your present , loves you and encourages your future ! Wait on God let him write your love story
"Your soulmate makes you feel entirely intact, like no piece is missing from the puzzle , a life partner on the other hand can be supportive and a long time but is limited in his or her capacity to enrich your spirit Dr Carmen Harra "
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